"Everything that happens in your mind is reflected in your body. So, meditate on the good!" T.K.V. Desikachar
Acknowledgement: To Sherry Goldstein, thank you for the gift of So'Ham and for sowing the seeds of possibility within me. Om Namah Shivaya.
med-i-ta-tion [med-i-tey-shuhn]
-noun
the act of meditation
continued or extended thought; reflection; contemplation
transcendental meditation | a technique, based on ancient Hindu writings, by which one seeks to achieve a relaxed state through regular periods of meditation during which a mantra is repeated. Abbreviation: TM |
devout religious contemplation or spiritual introspection
WHY MEDITATE?
Why do we do anything we do? Hopefully, to learn more about ourselves. Since we, as individual beings, are linked by a common thread, learning about ourselves will benefit the greater good. As the Dalai Lama says: "World peace starts within." So, it would stand to reason that meditation cultivates inner peace, as well as a powerful, directed mind.
On a very practical level, there are many physiological and psychological benefits of meditation such as improved pain management skills, gastrointestinal function, hypertension and blood pressure, stress-related levels of cortisol and lactate, lung capacity, and DHEA levels. Creativity, vitality, and emotional stability increase. Anxiety, depression, irritability and moodiness decrease. When we feel healthier and better about ourselves, the door is opened to increased self awareness and self acceptance, which leads to greater compassion for ourselves and those around us.
Meditation can be practiced by anyone with the desire to gain self-knowledge, known as vidya. The process leads us down roads like no other tool of exploration. By meditating we can explore our internal workings in the physical, spiritual, and mental, while aligning ourselves with the external world. When we hone the mind we open ourselves up to endless possibilities. This can allow us to better cope with life in the material realm and expand our awareness in the spiritual dimension by harnessing the mind and regulating our energies.
The reason we begin meditate is deeply personal. The result of meditation is universal: liberation.
Thoughts for novices:
Don't enter into meditation with grandiose expectations. Go into meditation as a blank canvas. The more expectations you have going into meditation, the more challenging it will be to focus the mind. Shift your focus to creating space for awareness and gaining knowledge.
There are many flavors of meditation adapted to suit a wide realm of faiths, religions, beliefs, mind sciences, etc. The one you choose should feel innate and natural -effortless. You may want to explore a meditation class at a community center or yoga studio, or look for audio Cd's with guided meditations to start out. Taste the different flavors to find the one that sates your needs - be present and you will find the your method.
Just like we make time to exercise our bodies, we should make time to exercise our mindful beings. Starting a meditation practice - like a physical practice - should be started in smaller doses of time and built up as your endurance builds. Using mala beads, a timer, or a set music play list will take the anxiety out of the time factor.
YOGA AND MEDITATION
If we look at the Eight-Limb Path of Yoga, meditation or dhyana is the 7th of the 8 limbs of classical yoga to gain liberation. It comes after dharana (concentration) and before samadhi (enlightenment or liberation). The eight limbs are:
Yamas (the don'ts): ahimsa (nonharming), satyam (truthfulness), asteya (nonstealing), brahmacharya (moderation in all things), aparigraha (nongreediness)
Niyamas (the do's): saucha (cleanliness), santosha (contentment), tapas (discipline), swadhyaya (self study), ishwarapranidhana (living a life of honor to the higher power/love)
Asana: physical postures linked by the breath, meditation in motion
Pranayama: regulating the breath allowing prana (life force) to flow freely through the body
Pratyhara: sensory withdrawal from the external world, turning inward - sights, sounds, tastes, feels, and smells do not affect your being
Dharana: development of concentration
Dhyana: meditation is the result of practiced pratyhara and dharana to be able to sit in concentration with intent
Samadhi: divine liberation, union with the universal spirit
Meditation is a method for controlling the stumbling blocks of the mind called the kleshas:
Avidya (lack of knowledge)
Asmita (egoism – I am ness)
Ragas (relying on people, places, animals, events to create happiness rather than creating it internally)
Dvesa (aversion to people, places, animals, & events that cause pain)
Abhinivesha (fear of death & closure)
By meditating on "who am I?" we come to know our true essence and release the ego's hold on us.
We can also use meditation as a tool along with karma yoga (the practice of serving others) and bhakti yoga (the practice of love and spiritual devotion) to harness the energy of the manomaya kosha. The manomaya kosha is like the third doll in a set of nested Russian dolls and houses mental body. "Often our minds are as overloaded as a freeway in Los Angeles, constricting the flow of your journey or yoga practice. If your mind is obsessed or is going in different directions, your breath becomes erratic and your sense of physical ease and balance wavers. Your breath can serve as a bridge between your body and mind. Expanded breath = Expanded mind = A sense of openness in the body." (Shiva Rea)
While it is ideal to have a special spot arranged to easily slip into meditation - any spot can quickly become a sanctuary with right intention. Historically, one would meditate for extended periods of time in isolated sanctuaries in mountains, caves, and forests. The area would have to be very clean, level, free from gravel and pebbles, free from noise and distraction, no fire place, protected from the wind, and visually pleasing. The meditator would face East honoring the rising sun or North honoring the power of the North Pole; both directions are said to have favorable magnetic vibrations. The prime times are said to be Brahma-muhurta (hour of Brahma) before sunrise from 4 am to 6 am, sunset, the hour before noon, and midnight. In today's world, a spot that allows you to comfortably sit undisturbed for even 10 to 20 minutes will work. PREPARING FOR OUR INWARD JOURNEY
Meditation involves all aspects of ourselves: mind, breath, senses, reason, and logic. B.K.S. Iyengar says the practice is "a steady continuous flow of attention directed towards the same point or region." While it is all encompassing, only the simplest tool is needed to get started: BREATH.
Breath: This is the vehicle that carries our life force: prana. It grounds and expands the physical body and provides a focus that is with us always. Start by following your breath in and out, rising and falling. Take an emotional and physical inventory by tuning into the flow of the breath in and out; by observing the it we can discover the points in our being that are sticky and that are open. For beginners, the act of sitting comfortably, hands in anjali mudra (prayer hands), and observing the breath for even 5 minutes is a good place to start building endurance.
Make it an event: Turn off your phone - turn off the computer - turn off the TV - tune into a quiet place. Have props such as candles, music, pictures, and readings to set the mood.
It is nice to have the same time each day or week to meditate on a regular basis, however it is not a strict "rule"; it is better to grab time to meditate when you can than not at all. Length of time varies person to person; some can sit for hours, while others can only endure minutes. Strive for quality time over quantity and have patience.
Sitting comfortably: Your seat is very important - you will want to be supported and not straining. Wear non-binding clothes and no shoes. If you use a block in seated postures in yoga practice you will find it helpful in meditation too. A better option is a nice firm pillow that will lift the hips up and allow the knees to fall open in a cross legged position. There are also special zafu pillows and meditation chairs/stools available to try out. You may also find sitting up against a wall helpful. Meditation is highly personal so take the steps to make it your own and easy.
Our physical asana practice of Hatha Yoga (meditation in motion) is a great lead in to seated meditation. If you don't have time to do a full asana practice before meditation, to loosen up do several minutes of seated postures such as forward folds, twisting, arm movements complemented by deep slow breathing before coming into your seat. Back bends tend to energize and are not the best to practice prior to meditation.
Hands: Find a position for the hands that feels restful, not placed. They may lay on the knees palms down to ground, palms up for receiving, hands on knees in cin-mudra or "consciousness seal" (palms up, tips of the index finger and thumb touching, remaining fingers extended), or resting your hands in your lap right on top of left.
Gaze: Closing the eyes allows for visualization. Picturing in your mind's eye a beloved person(s) or pet, or a place that brings you serenity is helpful in attaining the healing of meditation.
Leaving the eyes open provides an external focus that then becomes internal when the eyes are closed once an impression is made. A candle flame and/or the Ohm symbol, a significant spiritual symbol, or a picture or statue of a deity to be focused upon. Once the eyes close, the focal image is imprinted in the mind's eye. The meditator merges with the imprinted image creating the knowledge of being one with the higher power and/or the universe.
Mantra: By definition, "man" is mind and "tra" is tool, so "mind tool". It is repeated silently as a focal point to still the chitta vritti, "mind chatter". Traditionally in the study of meditation, a sanskrit mantra is handed down from guru to devotee, teacher to student, as a sacred gift. However, you can have your own non-traditional mantra to use as a tool. Some examples of non-traditional mantras are "I am well" if you are healing, "I am free" if you are looking to unbind yourself from a situation that is imprisoning you, "I am love(d)" to mend the heart, or "I am one with the universe" to feel in union with the world community. A shorter mantra should be expressed on the exhale. If the mantra is too long for your exhale, express half on the inhale and half on the exhale.
Music is optional. If you plan to meditate on visual point, music can assist your journey inward. If you are using a mantra, focus on the internal musical vibration of the repetition rather than playing music. Music can be used like a timer to take the stress out of "how long should I sit here?' If you want to continue the meditation after your playlist has stopped, find the music of silence. Of course, you can also use a traditional egg timer to tell you how long you've been sitting.
A set of mala beads (or a rosary for that matter) can be used during meditation. Mala are in a string of 108 beads on which to contemplate, and there are probably 108 different explanantions as to why there are that many beads. There is a 109th larger sumeru bead, the meditation begins on a bead next to the sumeru. The beads are held in the right hand looped over the middle finger. The index finger does not touch the beads as it represents the ego, which can be a hinderance to self realization. The sumeru bead will rest toward you on the middle finger, and your count will start on the bead to the right of the sumeru. With a repetition of your mantra, flick the first bead toward you. Repeat your mantra again and flick the second bead toward you and so on. You will feel the tassle and sumeru bead come around as you complete the 108 repetitions. If you choose to go another 108, reverse the direction without going over the sumeru bead.
GUIDED PRACTICE
Breath
Breath in. Breath out. Breath in. Breath out. Spend some time here getting to know your breath, the vehicle for prana/life force.
Observe your breath: is it ragged? smooth? shallow? deep? Work to find an easy meter that you can easily maintain.
Listen to the breath - feel it moving in through the top of the head and down the spine to the base of your being - feel it turn at the base and return up the spine to top of the head in a cyclical fashion.
Thoughts
What are your thoughts doing? Observe the thoughts without attachment and let them go. Don't judge thoughts that come up - let them flow through and dissolve without effort.
- If the same thought comes up repeatedly, note it and come back to it once you have finished meditation, perhaps writing in a journal or talking to a trusted person about it. Perhaps an issue has come up that needs to be explored further.
Once thoughts are stilled awareness can be observed and expanded.
Note: These first 3 steps may all that can be accomplished while first practicing meditation and that's great!
Take your time - enjoy the experience - explore who you are right now.
Dyhana
Coordinate your breath with visual or mantra and find unity with it.
Sit in your practice as long as it pleases you.
If you find your mind straying, reign it in with your breath and visual or mantra.
While fully engaged in meditation and your concentration is right on, you have that feeling of being in the "zone", the place that feels so natural, everything falls away and you feel your true essence. It's much like an artist completely absorbed in their medium, at one with their creation.
Finishing
Slowly deepen the breath expanding your physical being. Drop your chin towards your chest for a few breaths.
Raise the chin. Make a few small movements to awaken, the eyes remaining closed.
Close your meditation with a prayer, a thought of personal gratitude for taking time for yourself, and/or chanting Ohm.
Slowly open your eyes, adjusting to what is before you gazing softly, and just sit a few minutes more.
Before moving on, pause and evaluate how you feel. Are you refreshed? Are you agitated? Did you gain any new insights? Do you feel the same or different, and is that OK with you? Once you have observed your post meditation state - acknowledge it and let the observation go.
Over time and practice, you will find your mind will want to always remain in the same calm observant state as in meditation. What a wonderful thing!
I would like to say my life is a meditation, but then those days of chaos sneak in and upset the apple cart. Then I stop, close my eyes, listen to my breath, and acknowledge what is occurring; I return to my center observing life and honoring the the common thread that links us all as one.
BIBLIOGRAPHY
Internet Resources:
Books:
Clark, Bernie. YinSights: A Journey into the Philosophy & Practice of Yin Yoga. BookSurge Publishing (2007)
Dalai Lama, Ethics for the New Millenium. Riverhead TradeNew York (May 2001)
Dalai Lama, How to Expand Love: Widening the Circle of Loving Relationships. Atria Books, New York (June 2005)
Devananda, Swami Vishnu and The Sivananda Yoga Center. The Sivananda Companion to Yoga. Fireside, New Yok (1983)
Gates, Rolf. Meditations from the Mat: Daily Reflections in the Path of Yoga. Anchor Books, New York (2002)
Iyengar, B. K. S. and Menuhin, Yehudi. Light on Yoga: The Bible of Modern Yoga. Schocken Books; New York (1995)
Sri Swami Satchidananda. The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali. Integral Yoga Publications, Virginia (2003)
Yogananda, Paramahansa. Autobiography of a Yogi. Self-Realization Fellowship Publishers, California (2001)
Yogananda, Paramahansa. Man's Eternal Quest. Self-Realization Fellowship Publishers, California (1992)
Live Audience:
Dalai Lama, Salve Regina University, Thursday, November 17, 2005